All pepeples why not like marriage with disable persons who have good mind and job

**Ahmad Abbas** · 30-01-09, 10:59 PM

I want to ask from all pakistani pepoples (Muslims) why not like to disable persons for marriage, its mean u dont like a thing that maked by God. I am right, please give me answers on my this forum or my yahoo email ( uperson09@yahoo.com)
Mostly peoples like handsome, well job, in short (like physically and financially too much strong person) even that he is lier, cheet, bad character, but dont like to disable person (boy or girl) thay have self respect, educated, good mind, not lier.

Thanks

**امیرحمزہ** · 27-02-09, 09:34 PM

Asalamoalaikum
you see there are many handsome and physically fit boys and girls are waiting for their life partner but they can not get, because all the people are statutes conscious and materialist. nowadays people left to think about character they only think about social status and wealth. so they not consider handicapped persons as their life partner. thanks and regards

**teletoby** · 18-06-09, 11:28 AM

Look, i'm from Germany, and here is the same problem, i think this kind of problem exist in every country in the world, and the reason why people are like that is because the most people judge a other person by the first impression why they see it with her eyes, then they decide if they get closer with this person or not. Its a problem of the psychology. I know disabled people must feel expelled if people act like that.

**shafresha** · 19-06-09, 06:34 AM

Dear brother Ahmad Abbas, Salaam,
First of all I would like to welcome you on this Forum.
I would also like to appreciate you for pointing out a Very Important point on this forum. I personally think every person (Man or Women) obviously like to marry with handsome, beautiful, wealthy and physically strong person. I think this is natural. But In Islam there is SAWAB for those who marry with a poor, alone special person (disable/handicapped), but in our society the wife and some case the husband is also suppose to be responsible for caring of his (old) parents and sometime even for his younger brother and sisters. In this situation the special wife or husband (disable/handicapped) is no more but burden (I am sorry to use this word) on the family.

I personally suggest that the SECOND MARRAGE with disable/handicapped person should be appreciated in the Muslim Society.

Thank

30-01-09, 10:59 PM	#1
Ahmad Abbas Junior Member اجنبی تاریخ شمولیت: Jan 2009 مراسلات: 1 کمائي: 148 شکریہ: 0 ایک مراسلہ میں 3 بارشکریہ ادا کیا گیا	All pepeples why not like marriage with disable persons who have good mind and job All pepeples why not like marriage with disable persons who have good mind and job I want to ask from all pakistani pepoples (Muslims) why not like to disable persons for marriage, its mean u dont like a thing that maked by God. I am right, please give me answers on my this forum or my yahoo email ( uperson09@yahoo.com) Mostly peoples like handsome, well job, in short (like physically and financially too much strong person) even that he is lier, cheet, bad character, but dont like to disable person (boy or girl) thay have self respect, educated, good mind, not lier. Thanks

27-02-09, 09:34 PM	#2
امیرحمزہ Junior Member اجنبی تاریخ شمولیت: Feb 2009 مراسلات: 7 کمائي: 288 شکریہ: 0 7 مراسلہ میں 13 بارشکریہ ادا کیا گیا	جواب: All pepeples why not like marriage with disable persons who have good mind and job Asalamoalaikum you see there are many handsome and physically fit boys and girls are waiting for their life partner but they can not get, because all the people are statutes conscious and materialist. nowadays people left to think about character they only think about social status and wealth. so they not consider handicapped persons as their life partner. thanks and regards

19-06-09, 06:34 AM	#4
shafresha ناظم اعلی تاریخ شمولیت: Jun 2008 مقام: کراچی عمر: 40 مراسلات: 9,396 کمائي: 261,135 شکریہ: 51,152 7,457 مراسلہ میں 21,713 بارشکریہ ادا کیا گیا	Dear brother Ahmad Abbas, Salaam, First of all I would like to welcome you on this Forum. I would also like to appreciate you for pointing out a Very Important point on this forum. I personally think every person (Man or Women) obviously like to marry with handsome, beautiful, wealthy and physically strong person. I think this is natural. But In Islam there is SAWAB for those who marry with a poor, alone special person (disable/handicapped), but in our society the wife and some case the husband is also suppose to be responsible for caring of his (old) parents and sometime even for his younger brother and sisters. In this situation the special wife or husband (disable/handicapped) is no more but burden (I am sorry to use this word) on the family. I personally suggest that the SECOND MARRAGE with disable/handicapped person should be appreciated in the Muslim Society. Thank Last edited by shafresha; 19-06-09 at 06:37 AM.

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teletoby Junior Member اجنبی تاریخ شمولیت: Sep 2008 مقام: Germany عمر: 32 مراسلات: 1 کمائي: 135 شکریہ: 0 1 مراسلہ میں 1 بارشکریہ ادا کیا گیا	Look, i'm from Germany, and here is the same problem, i think this kind of problem exist in every country in the world, and the reason why people are like that is because the most people judge a other person by the first impression why they see it with her eyes, then they decide if they get closer with this person or not. Its a problem of the psychology. I know disabled people must feel expelled if people act like that.

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